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the football hero], and so begins her first painful crush, which is accompanied of course, by sending him anonymous �Valentine�s Day' cards, or calling him and playing songs over the phone.

But this has all the ingredients that a classic romance novel does not...those candy-coated pages do not tell you about the heartbreak, the tears, the mood swings and the countless negative aspects that are the central to these relationships Everyday life becomes a misery..marks drop, daily moods start to depend on the current state of her relationship with the boy and many girls, totally misled by Shaitaan, even make dua for a �reconciliation.� In the worst possible scenario, which is frequently happening, the girl, in an effort to improve her �self image,� may turn to various other ways...smoking, clubbing, drinking and drugs..she may embark on a series of flings just to make herself feel �special� again.�The woman and man guilty of adultery of fornication, flog each of them with a hundred stripes: let not compassion move you in their case, in a matter prescribed by Allah, if ye believe in Allah and the Last Day: And let a party of the Believers witness their punishment.� As difficult as it might be to end such relationships, once we realize and acknowledge to ourselves that the novels to which we are exposed to from such an early age are totally based on a kuffaar way of life, which appears to be very appealing from the outside, but which bears no contentment, no real happiness, it will in sha Allah, be easy to do so.

I am talking many times to Muslim brothers and it's very possible I'll embrace it. My question is: Is there no way of dating before marriage?

However I have recently come closer and closer to Islam. I am talking many times to Muslim brothers and it's very possible I'll embrace it.

It is no strange co-incidence that girls grow up believing that a boyfriend is the key to happiness...after all they have barely started walking, when the stories of the poor ill-treated Cinderella, saved only by a dashing prince, and the beautiful Snow White woken up by a prince, and the doomed Rapunzel, saved from the tower by..else - a dashing hero, are told to them.

the fact you can't date i believe is a difficult side in islam..

but honestly if you have no bad intentions there's nothing wrong you can try be friends.

Well is holding hands, kissing, sleeping together etc going to tell you whether or not someone is the right person to spend the rest of your life with?

We place great emphasis on finding proper compatibility which in the long run will ensure the marriage works and won't break down simply because that 'spark' has gone or the looks have faded.

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